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Friday, November 27, 2009

How to end 'fat talk' and why you should love your body

So we all like working out to lose weight, maintain weight, look good and keep our tummies tight, but how many of us do it simply because it makes us feel good?

Sure it may be a happy side-effect… ya know, the endorphins and all that science that proves that exercise makes us feel better, but for most of us, it isn’t THE reason that we work out.

The more I started thinking about this, the more I realized…it SHOULD be! Why shouldn’t the main reason we work out be that it makes us feel better about ourselves? Let the fitness level and lowered body fat be the happy side-effect!

Once we start switching our focus to the positive energy that exercise brings, our increased fitness level and tighter body will come with it.

According to Heather Hausenblas, a University of Florida exercise psychologist, “people who don’t achieve workout milestones such as losing fat, gaining strength or boosting cardiovascular fitness feel just as good about their bodies as their more athletic counterparts.” Hausenblas study is published in the September issue of the Journal of Health Psychology.

“You would think that if you become more fit that you would experience greater improvements in terms of body image, but that’s not what we found,” she said. “It may be that the requirements to receive the psychological benefits of exercise, including those relating to body image, differ substantially from the physical benefits.”

The study analyzed all previous (from June 2008) studies on the wide-ranging effects of exercise on body image. From the 57 publications, the researchers found conclusively that exercise improved the way people see their bodies, regardless of the actual benefits.

“While the frequency of exercise mattered for boosting body perceptions, there were no differences for the duration, intensity, length or type of exercise, the study found.”

I find this study so interesting because it really does drive home the fact that exercise, if we allow it, will make us happy! So why is it that so many people make it such a negative thing? It’s their focus.

Too much focus on exercising to lose weight or “having to lose this last 5 pounds,” or “not wanting to be fat anymore,” or “being able to fit into skinny jeans.” Stop making it all about your looks! STOP the fat talk. START letting the reason you exercise be that you want to feel good about yourself. Not only will those endorphins start working for you, but before you know it you’ll have the body that better represents your mind-set: healthy, strong and beautiful.

I invite you all to think about why you love your body and what makes it beautiful. Why are you thankful for your body?

I’m thankful for my…

Eyes, because they allow me to see the beautiful faces of my family and friends, read my favorite novels, twinkle when I laugh and enjoy the beautiful landscape that God has given us.

Mouth
, because it lets me taste incredible foods, kiss the Mister passionately, talk a mile a minute and smile until by face hurts.

Nose, because my Mom’s homemade sweet bread just wouldn’t be the same if I couldn’t smell it baking.

Ears, because the sound of laughter is too precious to miss.

Arms, because they’ll one day rock my children to sleep and tickle them silly.

Hands, because they fit perfectly into the Mister’s.

Stomach, because it will keep my growing children safe. (Note: I am NOT pregnant - just really excited to be a mom one day!)

Hips, because they can boogie on the dance floor.

Thighs, because they are strong and allow me to keep up with my Mom on our long walks.

Feet, because they let me torture them with all my high-heeled shoes ;)

Why do you love your body?

Shannon is the founder and creator of The Daily Balance, a Web site updated daily with advice, tips and personal stories to help others find balance in their lives. From food to fashion, fitness, inspiration and recipes, The Daily Balance   is the perfect tool for those who "want it all."



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  • Peejer's Avatar
    Posted by Peejer Tue Oct 27, 2009 12:19pm PDT

    Love it! Positive reinforcement in ANY situation is a good thing! Thank you for helping me love my tummy and chest ... because my great niece loves to nap there!

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  • M22's Avatar
    Posted by M22 Tue Oct 27, 2009 12:20pm PDT

    I love to workout because it makes me feel good. It's the perfect stress relief and it can even get you out of depression. Being active and doing something good for yourself is fun, and if you forget all the body scultping stuff and just workout because you enjoy it, you are so much more likely to get results and then be suprised in the end because you weren't so focused on losing those extra lbs. of bodyfat.

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  • MrsKlingonPasadena's Avatar
    Posted by MrsKlingonPasadena Tue Oct 27, 2009 1:08pm PDT

    I feel great after a workout, especially a long brisk walk in the morning. I loved your post, it helps remind us of the things in life that are really important.

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  • Lisa's Avatar
    Posted by Lisa Tue Oct 27, 2009 1:37pm PDT

    I loved this article. Thank you.

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  • Phoenix's Avatar
    Posted by Phoenix Tue Oct 27, 2009 1:38pm PDT

    What a wonderful and uplifting article!

    I love my shoulders, acne and all, because they're always there for someone to cry on.

    I love my hair, because it's the striking trademark of my femininity.

    I love my eyes, because they look just like my dad's.

    I love my heart, because it is with my heart that I love.

    As far as endorphins go, I must be missing out on something. Rarely does the act of exercise make me happy. If I am walking with a friend, carrying a canoe to go fishing, cross-country skiing in the silence and the snow, I will be a happy happy person. It's not the exercise, it's the environment and the company. Put me in the gym for an hour and see if I don't come out growling, pi$$ing and moaning about the time I lost and everything that's not getting done because of it. I try to incorporate activities I like into my routine, but working full-time doesn't allow for much sunlight left for outdoor fun. Stinkin' gym. :-/

    ~Peace

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  • E. Boost's Avatar
    Posted by E. Boost Tue Oct 27, 2009 3:12pm PDT

    Thanks for writing this, it made me feel a lot better about myself. Lately I've been feeling very crappy about myself (you can check out my blog about it) and this really makes everything seem better. I am thankful and love all parts of my body, even if sometimes I don't appreciate them.

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  • TAY's Avatar
    Posted by TAY Tue Oct 27, 2009 4:28pm PDT

    I love working out. I feel great during and afterwards, and it feels even better to know I took some time to take care of me for a change. I already have the body I want so I guess working out helps me maintain it, but I never workout thinking about maintaining my weight or changing the size of my hips, butt, etc. I do it because I love doing it. It's also a great way to help prevent high blood pressure, and promote heart health. Anything I can do now to help me later...

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  • twopeasandtheirpod's Avatar
    Posted by twopeasandtheirpod Tue Oct 27, 2009 7:09pm PDT

    Great post! I know it is important to love your body, but it is hard! Thanks for the reminder:)

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  • Kristine's Avatar
    Posted by Kristine Tue Oct 27, 2009 7:14pm PDT

    Thanks so much for this article!! I read way too many fat vs. skinny debates on Shine. I run 6 days a week because it makes me feel good. At the end of a stressful day, it's the only thing that actually reduces my stress instead of distracting me from it. It feels so good both mentally and physically. It also makes me strong and gives me a positive body image. Lastly, it also lets me sneak in an ice cream sandwich on the weekends without having to feel the least bit guilty. Thanks again!!

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  • freshvive's Avatar
    Posted by freshvive Wed Oct 28, 2009 9:09am PDT

    I LOOVE this post! I first started exercising to lose weight/get in shape for the military (navy). Then I started to notice that I was getting better and better. Excercising for me started out being about just getting in shape and losing weight and now it's about how I feel when I can run 6 miles in under and hour where 2 months ago I couldn't. I feel stronger and happier because I am proud of myself and the hard work I have put in. I actually LIKE going to the gym now :-)

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