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Saturday, November 7, 2009

Jenny Sanford: Another political wife wronged, handling it her own way

Reuters via Yahoo! News

Reuters via Yahoo! News

Refreshing, wasn't it, to not see Jenny Sanford standing silently beside her fake-Appalachian-Trail-hiking, adulterous husband? And, then, to see her personally hand her statement to reporters outside her home after her husband's tearful, meandering mea culpa before the cameras. How painful it must have been to hear the South Carolina governor apologize to his mistress before his wife.

Her statement is filled with references to forgiveness and reconciliation, and how she was/is all for working through this awful betrayal by her husband, Mark Sanford. But in clear, sharp words, she also tells the world she was/is not putting up with his infidelity and has put self-respect (and her sons' respect) front and center:

"We reached a point where I felt it was important to look my sons in the eyes and maintain my dignity, self-respect, and my basic sense of right and wrong. I therefore asked my husband to leave two weeks ago."

A sign of that self-respect is in the second paragraph of her page-long statement, when she refers to the work and career she has pursued in her own right, her management of her husband's campaigns that put him in office--and how none of that is as important as raising children with good and strong characters by having and modeling one yourself.

"I personally believe that the greatest legacy I will leave behind in this world is not the job I held on
Wall Street, or the campaigns I managed for Mark, or the work I have done as First Lady or even the
philanthropic activities in which I have been routinely engaged. Instead, the greatest legacy I will
leave in this world is the character of the children I, or we, leave behind. It is for that reason that I
deeply regret the recent actions of my husband Mark, and their potential damage to our children."

Note the "...children I, or we, leave beind." Nicely done, Jenny.

Isn't it a shame that a woman so accomplished in her own right will be most widely known for how she handled her philandering husband's publicly embarrassing actions? Read her full statement here, and let us know what you think about how she is handling this painful ordeal.
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  • awesome one's Avatar
    Posted by awesome one Thu Jun 25, 2009 10:21am PDT

    I think it is admirable that she did not stand next to him (like McGreevey's wife and many others) while he made his lame statement. His hollow apology cannot hide the fact he put his own pleasure above his vows, his children (choose the mistress over the kids on Father's Day, really?) and his responsibilities to his constituents as governor. Can you believe this guy said Clinton should resign after Lewinskey? Let's see if he holds himself to the same standard and resigns as governor.

    As for Mrs. Sanford, she seems to be handling herself in a very dignified manner. He doesn't deserve her.

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  • Miss_Renee's Avatar
    Posted by Miss_Renee Thu Jun 25, 2009 10:23am PDT

    This woman's strength over her pain is typical of many women. We fuss and flutter in the background to keep our families afloat and push the men in our lives up and this is the thanks we get. Typical. I love her strength, her unwillingness to fake her way through it. Thank you for being genuine Jenny!

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  • B. J.'s Avatar
    Posted by B. J. Thu Jun 25, 2009 10:37am PDT

    Maybe she should run for president in 2012. She's already shown more class, intelligence, and strength of character than any of the presidential candidates in recent decades.

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  • yaya's Avatar
    Posted by yaya Thu Jun 25, 2009 10:58am PDT

    You know that was the FIRST thing I noticed, and I was pleasantly surprised that she was not there next to him. It makes me SICK to see all of these politicians being unfaithful to their wives, but it makes me more sick when I see the wife standing there listening to their husbands admit in front of millions what they have been up to. I applaud this lady for doing what she felt was right in her heart. More women should be like her.

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  • rockin' mom's Avatar
    Posted by rockin' mom Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:04pm PDT

    She gets a well deserved standing ovation. Way to go.

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  • lovey's Avatar
    Posted by lovey Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:15pm PDT

    Jenny Sanford would make a much better governor or president than her husband, she's definately a class act.

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  • kim r's Avatar
    Posted by kim r Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:23pm PDT

    Jenny Sanford handle this the right way. Me, I know how I am, his press conference would have been held at his hospital bed. There is nothing like a hot pot of grits, to express how really angry you are.

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  • Sweetcakes's Avatar
    Posted by Sweetcakes Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:29pm PDT

    I think she is handling the situation with a mother's love for her children. It is horrible that so many people believe that they can have anything they desire....a very big part of being a human being is knowing when to have restraint......but for some sick reason some believe they are above everyone....how sad.

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  • wendy's Avatar
    Posted by wendy Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:30pm PDT

    She should so run for office. He should resign and she should get his seat in office. It would be great to have a smart well spoken woman representing us in office, instead of throw backs like Palin.

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  • Samx's Avatar
    Posted by Samx Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:32pm PDT

    Now there's a great Republican woman for you. Not those bimbos who pretend that there's nothing wrong. Or turn the other cheek.

    I'd sure vote for her as President. Way to go Ms. Sanford, you have my vote and my blessing.

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