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Thursday, November 26, 2009

Jenny Sanford: Another political wife wronged, handling it her own way

Reuters via Yahoo! News

Reuters via Yahoo! News

Refreshing, wasn't it, to not see Jenny Sanford standing silently beside her fake-Appalachian-Trail-hiking, adulterous husband? And, then, to see her personally hand her statement to reporters outside her home after her husband's tearful, meandering mea culpa before the cameras. How painful it must have been to hear the South Carolina governor apologize to his mistress before his wife.

Her statement is filled with references to forgiveness and reconciliation, and how she was/is all for working through this awful betrayal by her husband, Mark Sanford. But in clear, sharp words, she also tells the world she was/is not putting up with his infidelity and has put self-respect (and her sons' respect) front and center:

"We reached a point where I felt it was important to look my sons in the eyes and maintain my dignity, self-respect, and my basic sense of right and wrong. I therefore asked my husband to leave two weeks ago."

A sign of that self-respect is in the second paragraph of her page-long statement, when she refers to the work and career she has pursued in her own right, her management of her husband's campaigns that put him in office--and how none of that is as important as raising children with good and strong characters by having and modeling one yourself.

"I personally believe that the greatest legacy I will leave behind in this world is not the job I held on
Wall Street, or the campaigns I managed for Mark, or the work I have done as First Lady or even the
philanthropic activities in which I have been routinely engaged. Instead, the greatest legacy I will
leave in this world is the character of the children I, or we, leave behind. It is for that reason that I
deeply regret the recent actions of my husband Mark, and their potential damage to our children."

Note the "...children I, or we, leave beind." Nicely done, Jenny.

Isn't it a shame that a woman so accomplished in her own right will be most widely known for how she handled her philandering husband's publicly embarrassing actions? Read her full statement here, and let us know what you think about how she is handling this painful ordeal.
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  • michelaay's Avatar
    Posted by michelaay Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:32pm PDT

    A classy woman. Men can not be trusted. She handled this well she rocks.

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  • Katie's Avatar
    Posted by Katie Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:34pm PDT

    that dumb w---- needs to stand next to her husband in support. The religious platform that both of them agreed to run on is being torn apart by her disrespectful actions towards her husband. Everybody makes mistakes, thats why there are erasers on pencils.

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  • clearwatertree11's Avatar
    Posted by clearwatertree11 Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:35pm PDT

    YOU KNOW APOLOGY IS NO EXCUSE HERE IN MY CASE, HE SHOULD HAVE KNOWN AHEAD OF TIME TO THINK THROUGH THINGS BEFORE HE START ACTING LIKE AN IDIOT!!! IF I WAS HIS WIFE I FREAKING DIVORCE THAT MAN CAUSE IF HE DID IT ONCE THEN HE'LL SURE TO DO IT AGAIN, THINK ABOUT IT REMEMEBER BILL CLINTON'S MISTAKES??? YEAH RIGHT I STILL THINK HE HAS A SECRET AFFAIR TODAY EVEN. LET'S KICK ALL THOSE CHEATING BUTTS!!!!

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  • rockin' mom's Avatar
    Posted by rockin' mom Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:39pm PDT

    katess183, Let me guess.....you aren't married, or if you are, your husband is a complete chauvanistic pig, right? A wh*re? It was HER HUSBAND that cheated. And you think SHE was disrespectful? Do the world a favor and don't ever have children. We don't need more of you in this world. Ugh.

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  • princess1's Avatar
    Posted by princess1 Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:40pm PDT

    I was so pleased to see that he had to face the press alone - what a selfish idiot! It's interesting that politicians seem to think that they're untouchable, and they expect their spouse to go along with the charade for the sake of power and status.

    Jenny Sanford, in her own quiet and powerful way, has set the bar on strength and fortitude. Hopefully, more political spouses will follow her lead.

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  • Kelsey's Avatar
    Posted by Kelsey Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:49pm PDT

    What a woman.

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  • ehsan's Avatar
    Posted by ehsan Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:51pm PDT

    she is really a great lady.....

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  • carrie's Avatar
    Posted by carrie Thu Jun 25, 2009 1:04pm PDT

    She is a amazing person. However, he did do wrong everyone is telling him to step down and they are telling him how wrong he is. If the people that were telling him all this would look in their own closets I am sure they would find something more than perfect. Although he was in office doesn't mean that he is not human. I for one would not like people judging the way I could run my job by my personal life. Everyone has a personal life and I think it should stay out of the news.

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  • Ginger's Avatar
    Posted by Ginger Thu Jun 25, 2009 1:04pm PDT

    He has to have something serious wrong with him. He would give up everything he has for some w---- in Argentina? Those young boys deserve much better. Get rid of him, go into politics yourself and find true love so you and the boys will have a wonderful life. My prayers are with you and the boys.

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  • carrie's Avatar
    Posted by carrie Thu Jun 25, 2009 1:08pm PDT

    She is a amazing person. However, he did do wrong everyone is telling him to step down and they are telling him how wrong he is. If the people that were telling him all this would look in their own closets I am sure they would find something more than perfect. Although he was in office doesn't mean that he is not human. I for one would not like people judging the way I could run my job by my personal life. Everyone has a personal life and I think it should stay out of the news.

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