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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

What was your first job, and did you learn anything from it?

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Everyone remembers their first paying job--you either loved it or hated it. Jennifer Aniston claims her first paid gig was cleaning toilets. "I'm actually pretty good at it," she says. Really? Cleaning toilets? She's not confusing that with a movie role or something? Though Aniston has come a long way since, she had a handful of other odd jobs while waiting for her big acting break on "Friends." "I loved being a waitress," she says. "OK, I didn't like time-share selling, I hated that job. But people used to say to me, 'You need to focus on having ambition. And I guess sort of following that advice allowed a lot to come to me...There's just been a great ease with that evolvement in my life to being an actress. I didn't change that much, but my bank account changed." Um, yeah.

I grew up helping out in my mom's gift shop by ringing the cash register and keeping things tidy. But my first real job was as a sales associate at Urban Outfitters. I worked there for about two years and one useful skill it taught me was how to fold perfect shirts. My friends are always envious of how perfectly organized my closets are and have asked me to help them with their own. Maybe I should start charging! Even more practically, the job further sparked my interest in fashion and trends, and also taught me how to interact well with strangers. As a blogger who spent the past week writing about fashion shows, I'd say those lessons have come in pretty handy!

I noticed another Shine user reminiscing about her first job: After working as a clerk in a grocery store she earned respect for fellow service industry workers.

What was your first job, and did you learn any practical lessons from it that you still apply today? [US]
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  • Yogurt Lover's Avatar
    Posted by Yogurt Lover Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:01pm PDT

    My very first "paying job" was at Aeropostal. I wanted to have a job so badly and went and applied for it against my father's wishes. After all, I had school and sports that were more important at the time.

    What that job did was give me my own money. I became a pot head at 16 and school and sports fell to the way-side.

    How about that?

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  • yaya's Avatar
    Posted by yaya Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:05pm PDT

    My first 'job' was when I was 15 and I tried working at Jack in the Box. I say tried because I ended up lasting for all of ten minutes, I ended up screaming at the lady that was training me (cursing at her and everything, she was SUPER RUDE the entire time) and I ended up quitting on the spot. Never again have I applied for a job at a fast food joint. Screw that! And now thanks to my degree I will never need to!

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  • yaya's Avatar
    Posted by yaya Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:06pm PDT

    Yogurt Lover: lmao that's hilarious!

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  • CiaoBella's Avatar
    Posted by CiaoBella Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:22pm PDT

    I had a waitressing job. It was a small mexican place in a very upscale part of the city. Rich ladies would come in and sit 10 to a table and run me around, then leave gobs coins to pay for their white wine and margaritas. It was hellacious!

    I am shy to begin with anyway and It was my first job anywhere so it wasnt a very good time to put it lightly. I had to deal with the rich snots who came in for happy our, the entitled men who would stare me up and down and turn me into an object instead of a human being.

    Finally after being insulted one too many times I quit. Luckily I didnt leave any friends behind, the girls there were older and snide, and they smoked crack!

    If I learned anything from it, people who give you a hard time fall into two categories...1. Those that want you to LEARN and are really just trying to help( IE the managers) 2. Those that want to tear someone down, like a rat clawing up a flooding board, because they are drowing in their own misery and loathsomeness.( ie the crackhead girl)

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  • GirlyGirl©'s Avatar
    Posted by GirlyGirl© Fri Sep 18, 2009 12:44pm PDT

    I started working at 11, I milked cows and cleaned stalls, and weaned the calves. It paid very well, and I stayed there for years. By the time I was 18, I had enough socked away to pay for 2 1/2 years of college. Waitressed in law school and bartended. Now I am an entertainment lawyer, so I've been working almost all of my life. I work like a dog still, my Papa instilled such a work ethic into me that it's hard for me to take a sick day. But I do!

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  • preston's Avatar
    Posted by preston Fri Sep 18, 2009 1:25pm PDT

    My first real job was working at a small family own grocery store. I walked to work each which sucked on the rainy days. I did alittle bit of everything there from bagging groceries, sweeping and mopping the floor, putting up stock to cleaning the meat room. I would say the biggest thing I learned was that sometimes you may like what you do but you need to do it until something better comes along.

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  • spotty's Avatar
    Posted by spotty Fri Sep 18, 2009 6:38pm PDT

    My first job was at a children's clothing store. I learned so much from my boss at 13 that I still tie a bow just like she taught me and I never judge a book by its cover, just like she taught me. Good Post!

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  • Heidi's Avatar
    Posted by Heidi Fri Sep 18, 2009 7:38pm PDT

    GirlyGirl, your story is awesome, and I admire you deeply for working so hard for your goals.

    CiaoBella, How true that most people who hate on random others are just being eaten up by how pathetic their own lives are and need something or someone to take it out on.

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  • Heidi's Avatar
    Posted by Heidi Fri Sep 18, 2009 7:41pm PDT

    BTW, my first job was doing hair and it taught me... well, everything I know about doing hair LOL. School only teaches you how to pass your state board exam; everything else you learn by doing. Helps, too, if you have someone to mentor you through those first terrifying months(thanks, Wendy).

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  • Robyn's Avatar
    Posted by Robyn Fri Sep 18, 2009 9:07pm PDT

    my very fist PAYING JOB was at a college child development center.... i learned that this field i want to learn is a lot more work... but i got an aa in it.

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