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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

A Message To My Boys (poem)

I sat down today and thought about time

Thought about the day I run out of mine

Wondered if I’ve done enough to let you know

How much I love you; Did I help you to grow?

Have I taught you the most that I possibly could?

Did I make life and love something you understood?

Did I cover the bases and reach out for more?

Did I give you the tools for what life has in store?

It took me a while as I sat and pondered

Is there anything else that they might have wondered?

You know that I love you I hope that you do

My life wasn’t blessed until I had you

Do you know the importance of God in your life?

Do you know that with him you’ll handle any strife?

How important it is to continue to learn?

How bridges are useless if you let them burn?

Will you remember the lessons that I’ve tried to teach you?

The moments spent together when I tried to reach you?

I hope that I‘ve taught you all that I can

I know in my heart that you’ll both be good men

You’ll treat people with kindness but not be a fool

You’ll thank me someday that you’ve finished school

You’ll see that the grass is not always greener

When you find the right woman, you’ll know how to treat her

You’ll stand up when it’s needed, defending your rights

Please be careful to only choose the right fights

Not everything matters as much as it may appear

Sometimes forever is gone the next year

Remember that rage is a destructible emotion

It’ll drown and consume you quicker than any blue ocean

Keep close to each other whatever it may take

Family is important, don’t let that bond break

Try to learn something from every mistake

Old adage or not- Give more than you take

Let your conscience guide you through troubling days

Hearts can confuse you, put you in a haze

If you won’t be able to look in a mirror

Know it’s a situation that you should stay clear

I hope that this helps, that it somehow provides you

With all that you’ll need and on some level guides you

To become the men I know you can be

Respectable, loving, happy and free

My dreams for you, I hope I‘ve shown

The rest you’ll have to learn on your own

I love you my sons, don’t ever forget it

Go live your lives now and never regret it

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  • casy's Avatar
    Posted by casy Fri Nov 6, 2009 4:37pm PST

    BEAUTIFUL......I TOO HAVE BOYS........I FEEL THE SAME WAY............BEAUTIFULLY SAID....I LOVE YOU MY SONS.........DUSTIN, KEITH AND TODD.........I LOVE YOU....MOM

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    Posted by tamara Fri Nov 6, 2009 5:27pm PST

    Oh I had a lump in my throat I still do! Great poem!

    I have three children two girls and one boy! I often think am I doing a good job in molding them into beautiful people?

    You sound like you are doing and have done a lovingly wonderful job with your boys!

    May GOD bless you and your boys! muah muah muah the kiss of peace!

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  • Gypsy woman's Avatar
    Posted by Gypsy woman Fri Nov 6, 2009 5:27pm PST

    This is so sweet. Reminds me of my favorite song "Simple Man".

    Thanks for sharing.

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