is it wrong for me to want to see my gf of over 5 years nude.
insted of wanting to look at porn. i thank not.
and if she dosent want me watching porn u woud thank she would try
to fill that gap right.
am i in the wrong?
oh btw i have seen her nude. we have made love many of time. but
now that im half a world away in iraq i would still like too see
her. if u know what i mean.
oh and she asked me to stop watching porn for her. i would rather
see her nude than some w---- off u porn anyway.
porn Vs my gf nude
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Posted by Mon Oct 12, 2009 1:07pm PDT
Report AbuseWait... you've been together five years and never seen her naked? To each his own, and I commend her moral strength, as well as your patience, but have you talked about it with her? How you are ready to take the relationship further? If you're just a horny kid wanting to get some action, then you don't deserve to see her naked... however, if you both love each other, and she is OKAY with sex before marriage, then you need to have a talk with her as to why.
If she is not okay with sex before marriage, you need to respect that, because no, "men have needs" is nowhere near an acceptable excuse or justification for watching porn if it bothers her.
I'm a young Christian woman, with a boyfriend, but I am okay with sex and happen to love sex as a part of a relationship if it is meaningful and not just for the pleasure of it... so I do understand, but also, if she is strong moraled or doesn't feel ready ( maybe you guys are really young? ), you MUST respect that.
Bottom line, talk to her.
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Posted by Mon Oct 12, 2009 3:49pm PDT
Report AbuseHi gizzmo44b. You have a valid question. About being wrong persay that's all in a person's opinion. And you know what the say about opinions! I do have a problem though with the fact that you give your girlfriend the ultimatum of if you don't let me see you naked I'm gonna start watching porn. I don't know how old you are but to me this seems to be childish. What you need to do, that is if you really love your girlfriend, is talk to her and find out why she maybe feels uncomfortable letting you see her naked. The problem may be that she's just modest or shy and then again there might be a slightly bigger problem. Either way the best solution at this time I would suggest is talking things out not threatening to watch porn. Be careful how you handle this because you just might push her away and if you really do love her I'm sure you don't want to do that. Be patient with her. I promise that you will only enhance your relationship by opening up the window of communication. Good luck to you and your girlfriend.
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