Well everyone this is my story. we met in high school and the frist time i saw her i was simply amazed at how beautiful she was, long wavy blond hair blue eyes so deep i could swim in them forever. i used to think love at frist sight was only in fairy tales and bed time stories , but she changed it for me i was in love when i saw her. She was my first true love and first lover as was i to her. even tho i loved her i waited for about three and a half months, just being friends and only when she made the first move did i ask her to go out with me. and of course she said yes and then my life change completely. and after 18 months or so thats when this fairy tale becomes an horror story. we started to get tired of each other more than likely do to spending way to much time together. well she wanted some time alone and i didnt allow her to have any and one night i spent the night at her house we watched a movie and when it was time to go to sleep i went and laid on the sofa untill everyone went to sleep then i went and laid in her room with her and started messing with her because i was horny she said no but i didnt listen. and she broke up with me that day. but i started calling her everyday and soon every hour. tried my best to get her back and of course it didnt work. almost two years later she finds me on myspace and explains her love and the fact she "misses her teddy bear" and right now i live in ohio and she lives in so. california. but i well be moving back there hopefully soon and i am wandering am i crazy to want to get back with my ex. i still love her as much as the first day i saw her. if anyone can give me their point of view it would be appicatied greatly, thank you and have a good day.
reuniting with an old flame? Am i crazy for wanting to?
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Posted by Fri Oct 24, 2008 12:48am PDT
Report AbuseJimmy, I say give it another shot. This break up was not over someone cheating on the other person. You are both now a little mature now hopefully. if you still love her and she still loves you, what do you have to lose. Just respect her. This time let her make the first move. Have you two thought about visiting each other first in person, to see if the spark is still there? Take it slow don't rush anything! Rushing has its way of biting you in the butt. For the most part though honestly I see go for it and see what happens, how else are you gonna know. You don't want to spend the rest of your life saying "Could've, Would've, Should've".
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Posted by Sun Dec 21, 2008 2:11pm PST
Report AbuseI say don't do it. After a twenty year absence my old flame came back. We started up again. When I had already remarried him I found out that the only reason he married me was because he needed a "wife" to take care of him, wait on him hand and foot and be there when "he" needed "me" and he was out of work! As it turned out, I was just his maid. He never had any affection for me. He was very controlling, and wanted to know my every mood, thought and deed. He became abusive verbally and physically. I walked out and left everything I owned to stay alive. What is past is past. Pick up and move on without going back, thinking back and just MOVE FORWARD!
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Posted by Fri Mar 27, 2009 7:12pm PDT
Report AbuseI say start off slowly. You can not let the experience of someone else dictate how you should proceed. Think long and hard about why you want to reconnect. Is it because you truly love her (and are NOT obsessed with her...some of what you mentioned sounds like possessive/obsessive behavior). If you truly love her and are confident in her feelings for you than please do not exhibit the same behavior. As a woman, most of us do not enjoy behavior such as what you mentioned. Play it cool and take it one day at a time. Who knows? You may meet her again and realize that your feelings for her has changed or it may be deeper and more mature now. Regardless, good luck! I hope it works out.
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Posted by Mon Jul 27, 2009 1:58pm PDT
Report AbuseWell?! Jimmy Walker? You never finished your story....but alas I hope it was the fairy tale you expected it to be...
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