Sex With Co-workers. Ever done it?

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  Posted by Mauna Tue Oct 20, 2009 6:58am PDT

  did it, and NEVEEEEEEER AGAIN.....that is what so many people do not learn.....is from something they have tried.....habits die hard. I beginning to 'believe' that an old dog can learn new tricks, however when it comes to the TOP OF THE FOOD CHAIN....I still wonder......

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  Posted by Mrs. Carol B Wed Oct 21, 2009 10:41am PDT

  Didn't have sex with a co-worker but flirted and threw out innuendos quite a bit until it got too close for comfort. That was when I was really young and in a bad marriage. Would never do that now because I am older and in a wonderful marriage with a man I have respect for.

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  Posted by Guadalupe L Fri Oct 23, 2009 12:46am PDT

  i am heart broken my husband of 6 yrs seperated 2 yrs ago and now he wants to us to reconcile but he told me some news that has me upset and most of all just sad. he hooked up with someone else things didnt work out and she has his baby. please someone tell me what i should do? should i forgive him or let him go

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  Posted by Deb Sat Oct 24, 2009 11:32pm PDT

  yes, I have.. I knew this man before we even became co-workers. I worked there first, then he started. We were both married and started an affair that has been going on for over 3 years. I love him, he loves me, we are soulmates, bestfriends and lovers. I left my husband 2.5 yrs ago. he is still with his wife. He asks me to marry him frequently, i would. But although i dont regret our time together, i do regret that he feels the need to play me, and i let him. My advice, dont do it!! It makes things really sticky around the workplace...

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  Posted by --- T ---- Sun Oct 25, 2009 1:35am PDT

  FINALLY DID IT AND IT WAS GREAT,....BUT UNFULFILLING..GOT OLD QUICK..WON'T DO IT AGAIN...WE ARE COOL WITH EACH OTHER BUT I BAILED ..I'M GETTING TOO OLD FOR OFFICE GAMES..

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  Posted by StephanieM Mon Oct 26, 2009 8:44am PDT

  I met my fiencee at work, we have been together over 2 years, we have a house together and an adorable healthy 3 1/2 month old son now. And my bf before him I met at work and we dated for 3 years before we ended it. But in my job we worked in different buildings never the same cause that is to much closeness.

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  Posted by chillyfromphilly Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:51am PDT

  never have and hopefully i never will. but ive seen how it can really make things difficult for both people. i cant say i havent been tempted. and those who say they have never been tempted either work in a place with only one gender or you"re an alien life form.being tempted is natural.the key is to control your temptations amd emotions

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  Posted by Linda W Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:25pm PDT

  No. This is a line that I wouldn't want to cross. Come on you have to work together and if it doesn't work out...Think about those things. You need boundaries...

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  Posted by Techno Broke Thu Nov 5, 2009 12:20pm PST

  Have done it at least with one person at every job I have had. Almost like breaking your first pencil and the rest of your time there is just great.

  It really is a perspective thing. I don't live by social taboos. You make or break a situation or a surrounding. If you are married, well, be careful. If you are single, well, there is no hope in finding a mate that way.

  Like it or hate it, you spend more time with them than with your spouse or home mate. And frankly, you will "think" you will have more in common with your "work spouse". But, don't be fooled. Compatibility is not what makes a relationship work. It is humility and determination.

  And yes, making love on the board room table or a freight elevator like in the movies is wonderful, and a great memory. But, there is more to life than that.

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  Posted by endless love Sun Nov 8, 2009 2:57pm PST

  I Have..... And I never will have to again.... It was kind of hot how we had to keep it a secret, but when you work in the hotel industry, sneaking off to make love in a hotel room with your boss on lunch, is too easy. Needless to say... We fell in Love, & We're currently married. It was the best decision I ever made.

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