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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Thank You for Coming into My Life...

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.  When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.  When some is in your life fore a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.  Thy have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.  They may seem like a Godsend, and they are.  They are there for the reason you need them to be.  Then, without any wrong doing on your part or an in convenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  Sometimes they die.  Sometimes they walk away.  Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.  What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, and is now time to move on.
When people have come into your life a season, is it because your turn has to share, grow or learn.  They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.  They may teach you something you have never done.  They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.  Believe it!  It is real!  But only for a season.
Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.  Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person; and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.  It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.  I know why you are in my life and I love you for that reason...
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  • J Montana™'s Avatar
    Posted by J Montana™ Mon Jul 13, 2009 3:29pm PDT

    I am thankful for those of you that are in my life!!

    I am thankful for you, Sara!!!

    Much love to you!

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  • kim r's Avatar
    Posted by kim r Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:04pm PDT

    Oh this is so beautiful and heart felt. I truly believe this. Most of the blogs I have written, were of me when I was not at my best. However I write them so that maybe someone can identify with me. I know that I am not perfect by a long shot, but I did learn from those not so perfect moments. I believe that it is our flaws that make us human. To overcome difficulties that makes us great. The people on shine has got me through some hard times in my life, and I am forever grateful for that. Thank you for letting me know about this post. SMOOCHES

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  • NO NAME's Avatar
    Posted by NO NAME Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:43pm PDT

    very well done, great post

    thanks for inviting me

    bud

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  • LADY-JANE's Avatar
    Posted by LADY-JANE Mon Jul 13, 2009 6:40pm PDT

    ~~~~~~~~~JUST MY HEART, WHEN I LOVE YOU , IT IS FOR REASONS, ALL SEASONS

    AND MY LIFETIME.........THIS IS A WONDERFUL POST AND YOU ARE SPECIAL FRIEND......THANK YOU~~~~~~~~~~~HUGZZZZZZZ

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  • Dan's Avatar
    Posted by Dan Mon Jul 13, 2009 8:14pm PDT

    Hi Sara. Nice to meet you. Some very wise words here, but I wonder if you're speaking of someone specific, or is this your general approach to humanity. Kudos, either way. You very positive and upbeat, which are always welcome worthwhile traits. Peace to you! And thanks for reading my stuff.

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  • Dan's Avatar
    Posted by Dan Mon Jul 13, 2009 9:23pm PDT

    I just read your first post. That was a well conceived rhyme. Very cool.

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  • Dan's Avatar
    Posted by Dan Mon Jul 13, 2009 10:16pm PDT

    Thanks! I'm glad you got the humor of it. I'm hoping others will too.

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  • RIVER's Avatar
    Posted by RIVER Mon Jul 13, 2009 11:13pm PDT

    Hi there Crafty...such a well done post!!..true you must take from each relationship to build for the next..therein lies the reality.... they where not ever intended to be there forever physically but the learning you received will go on..with each comes growth..

    you are a very wise young woman!!! thank you for sharing..

    peace flows like a river

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  • Dan's Avatar
    Posted by Dan Tue Jul 14, 2009 11:28pm PDT

    Hey. Well, I'm a geek by nature. Everything I ever needed to know about life, I learned from Star Wars. I devour comic books, can't get enough of them. And I watch way too many cheesy, popcorn flicks. That's pretty much me in a nutshell. How are you doing?

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  • kim r's Avatar
    Posted by kim r Thu Jul 16, 2009 8:21pm PDT

    http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/parenting/they-will-never-know-by-kimr-488706/

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