User post: Just How Many Are Too Many Lovers?

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  Posted by urassismine2 Thu Oct 29, 2009 1:44pm PDT

  More than one at a time.Period!

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  Posted by Joboo027 Thu Oct 29, 2009 1:47pm PDT

  it's not really how many men a woman has had relations with, it's how did she handle herself, i.e. did she protect herself, or did she just sleep with anything that had balls? and that goes for men too! did he just sleep with as many women as he could get a hold of or did each one MEAN something to him more than just sex? David

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  Posted by None Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:27am PDT

  More than you can count and if you can't even remember their names, people who sleep with anything and anyone are nasty, plain and simple, gluttonous no self-control, have no respect for themselves and their bodies, you pretty much are a prostitute except giving it away for free at least porn stars get paid for it.

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  Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:34am PDT

  Too many lovers depends on how you feel about love or f@#$ing. I feel love is free and we should love everybody, but everybody isn't to be loved as intimate and sexually as a husband and wife. You can go F@#$ who ever, where ever for what ever as long as you live and you'll still be ready for more because your body was designed for sex even though that sex shouldn't define your existance. The more you get into truly loving yourself the deeper that love will grow til you can appreciate and be appreciated by someone who loves just as strongly and that lover will be like no other because hopefully a sense of GOD will cause yall to respect each other enough to be happily married and completely satisfied beyond the realm of just F@#$ing.

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  Posted by Erica Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:56am PDT

  Just How Many Are Too Many Lovers?

  I feel that you can not say how many lovers are too many. Reasoning for is everyone has a different inturpitation about love also known as(lovers). There are many different elements, requirements, and est, to the basic form of love witch there is not one except being a deep and craving feeling for another person. So that is my input othes may feel or think different but this is my define deffinition.

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  Erica.S

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  Posted by ablex Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:59am PDT

  How many pairs of socks are too many? How many pets? How many cars?

  It makes no difference. A person's character isn't tied to their sexual history. The number of lovers a person has is no reflection on their worth as a human being. A person can be kind and honest, generous and tolerant and sleep with someone new every day. Another person may be a 40 year old virgin and be a selfish, manipulative, uncompassionate bigot.

  Sexuality is a personal choice, and there is no "right" number. It's not something to judge someone on.

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  Posted by BH Fri Oct 30, 2009 6:11am PDT

  personally i dont think its cool to have over one hand full, and going past 2 hands is the line.

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  Posted by bronzegoddess Fri Oct 30, 2009 6:16am PDT

  I used to get caught up in this numbers game. I don't anymore. I don't think it really matters as long as you are having safe, responsible sex. Word to the wise, don't ask your partner how many people they have slept with if you aren't prepared to handle the truth.

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  Posted by Julie Fri Oct 30, 2009 6:29am PDT

  I have a friend who has had sex with over 33 women in his life and he's only 17 years old, im stillamazed that he hasn't hoten any STD's yet. But in my opinion i think you should stick with one lover that youi ruly love or else you'll become a man w---- like my friend.

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  Posted by Zom-B Fri Oct 30, 2009 6:35am PDT

  I think that should only be judged by the individual in question. It's no one else's business.

  Well, it's also the business of whomever you have sex with, of course. Do what makes you happy, and I personally see nothing wrong with sleeping with whom you want as long as you treat your partners honestly and compassionately. If you're obscuring or lying about your intentions and just screw around and tell your partners "get over it" if their feelings are hurt when you drop them, you very well might be a sociopath and a menace to society.

  I'm just saying that people who sit back and point the finger at others that they're not even involved with really get on my last nerve.

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