User post: Would you be ok with your friend dating your ex?

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  Posted by Brandy Tue Nov 3, 2009 10:14am PST

  Yes I would have a problem with it becuse im in love with mi ex but I dont have to worry bout mi best friend dating mi ex cuz we are getting back together and he tells mi best friend which happens to be his best friend to how he feels about me he told her that even thou were not togehter rite now but that im still Mrs Daniels

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  Posted by Betty N Tue Nov 3, 2009 10:28am PST

  If he/she can fine love/peace with each other fine with me. We only live ,love between two people is up most.

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  Posted by another hockey fan Wed Nov 4, 2009 6:49am PST

  If there are no unresolved feelings or issues between myself and an ex AND I think he's a great guy, why not? I want my friends to all be happy and in love with good guys. In fact, years ago a friend of mine did date an ex-boyfriend of mine and I'm still friends with his ex-girlfriend to this day. I say as long as everyone is mature and fine with the situation, why not?

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  Posted by Marsha Wed Nov 4, 2009 7:13am PST

  ummmm no cause there are sertain bounderies that a friend shound pertray

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  Posted by Penny Wed Nov 4, 2009 7:26am PST

  For me it would depend on the relationship with the ex. Like the post said if we had been married, shared kids and a house then it might be a bit much to deal with. But then again, if he and I are no longer in love why should it matter. Maybe it would be best if he were with someone I liked so I knew my babies were well cared for when not with me. hmmm so my answer is I DONT KNOW -)

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  Posted by Kelly Wed Nov 4, 2009 7:31am PST

  I don't think so and if she was ur friend she wouldnt even want ur X

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  Posted by Mom2One Wed Nov 4, 2009 7:32am PST

  Honestly, it would be difficult if there was some significant history. I only dated a few people before I met my husband and I remember each of them fondly -- we were together for a reason. (The break-ups happened for a reason as well, but it was never a "horrible" ending like cheating.) Today, I'm a happily married woman. But, it still would feel a tad odd if one of my friends kindled a romance with an ex.

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  Posted by katie Wed Nov 4, 2009 7:35am PST

  Yes, I would. I would have a HUGE problem with it. My friends have dated my exes in the past (one even flaunted the fact that she was planning on "having sex with him" even though she knew I still cared for him). Friends don't date their friends' exes.

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  Posted by katie Wed Nov 4, 2009 7:36am PST

  Oops. I meant that Yes I would be MAD, not that I'd be OK with it.

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  Posted by Christine Wed Nov 4, 2009 7:43am PST

  Some things you just don't do, once you've had him hands off you might want to go back!

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