WHAT IS LOVE ?

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  Posted by Ms. Crys* Wed Oct 7, 2009 9:06am PDT

  I tear up as I read this, and I feel like a blubbering wreck. Love is starting to be a fantasy to me, and only attainable in my dreams. My reality is I have to put love on the back burner in order to be successful but *really* to achieve success for me is for my soulmate to find me. I used to think I knew what Love was, but it was the ideal of love that messed my mind up. I have to pray that I sit and be still, because I am soo sad right now, my eyes sting with tears, and I don't feel like eating. This means I have loved to hard, and need to let up on how I handle relatioships from now on. :-z

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  Posted by J Montana™ Wed Oct 7, 2009 9:58am PDT

  Michael,

  I rarely call friends out, and I do consider you a friend.

  Please do not pity me. Do not carry your heartache and sorrow around like it’s a burden to bare.

  I don’t I never will. I will tell you like it is, brother. The mortgage companies, Obama, and the bank that hold the lien to my truck do not have pity for me and don’t say- “ well she has a handicapped child, let’s let her slide this month on her truck note.

  I ask you not to feel for me. I carry the hardships in my life with pride and honor and I will never feel like I wish that I didn’t have them in my life.

  You have pain from a love lost and I get that, I truly do. Be thankful, raise your head , dust your self off and just accept it.

  Don’t worry about me. I will be just fine. I have lost both of my parents back to back, lost my home due to Hurricane Ike, and I am raising a handicapped child.

  If I lost love, as You have, I would just be Damn thankful that I had f’n had it in the first place and I wouldn’t be doubting my decisions that were made.

  Trust, Love and just be a Great man.

  If you have a chance to show her that you love her, By God ‘s grace, you best do all that you can , because if you don’t, you have no one to blame but yourself.

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  Posted by None Wed Oct 7, 2009 11:38am PDT

  Nice

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  Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Wed Oct 7, 2009 12:11pm PDT

  That means alot to me coming from you. I've read alot of your comments and you are blunt. Always straight to the point to cut through all the bullsh@#. I really appreciate your comment. Alot of these guys on here follow behind these women like sick puppies or nuttless wonders. You are too cool. Thank you so much None.

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  Posted by J Montana™ Wed Oct 7, 2009 12:12pm PDT

  try, Just Live and learn

  Watch your enemies burn

  Put on a smile and laugh awhile

  we are not here to walk a mile

  in his shoes or in hers

  wearing cowboy boots & spurs

  Jiggle it and snap into a click

  home is where the heart's mix

  Love her with mercy and give your all

  know your worth and head life's true call

  ~*

  *clicking her heels three times saying " there's no place like home"

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  Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Wed Oct 7, 2009 12:27pm PDT

  That means alot to a Man born in a place he can't call home. You are truly a sweetheart, while I'm building my own.

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  Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Wed Oct 7, 2009 12:33pm PDT

  brick by brick and stone by stone, side by side and never alone.

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  Posted by Promise Wed Oct 7, 2009 3:13pm PDT

  i know what you are saying it will get better as time goes on!

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  Posted by Nicole Wed Oct 7, 2009 4:01pm PDT

  Hi Michael,

  Today is such a beautiful day.I feel so blessed to be alive!

  Love is like a rainbow.Bold and Beautiful.I'm enjoying life.

  I am one lucky woman.I have a new friend in my life,and things

  are looking good.We have so much in common.He can really make

  me laugh.I feel like a school girl.The way he looks at me.He

  thinks I am so beautiful.Lastnight he gave me my first gift.

  He bought me a Gucci handbag,with a matching wallet.Is he sweet

  or what?I just can't believe it.This guy must be heaven sent.

  Oh my!I dnt know what to get him.I have to top his gift.I am

  so excited.Lastnight when he held my hand,I felt so safe.The

  way he plays with my hair.I think he likes a woman with long

  hair.His hands are so strong.He is such a gentlemen.I met his

  father lastnight.Can you believe he had his dad in the car today?

  Oh my God!!!!I could have fainted.He should have told me....

  I think his dad liked me.He said,My house was beautiful.....

  I am still in shock!His father has a very serious look.He kept

  giving me eye to eye contact.If only he knew how nervous he was

  making me,and I was ready to pass the f@ck out!I hate meeting

  ppl parents.I feel as if I am on trial.My mom is the greatest!

  She is simple.She dnt drill ppl,or ask them a thousand of ?'s..

  I feel as if I was threatening a heart attack.He did compliment

  me on how young I look.I get that all the time.Well,what can I

  say...Great Genes from Grandma!Grandma is mad with me.I dnt think

  she wants me dating.Every man I meet,she dnt think they are good

  enough for me.I keep telling her,that I am not going to be alone.

  Its time I start dating again.Maybe its her age.Besides this guy

  makes me forget about my past.Lastnight we cuddle on his couch,

  and just talked.That to me,was very romantic.I gave him the most

  amazing foot massage!He was scared to show me his feet,later on

  he finally gave in.I am the bomb!Lastnight we did situps,I think

  I pulled a muscle in my back.He dnt see how,but I did.And No!!!

  I am not in lust.And No!!!!I am not in love.Yes!!!I like him...

  BUT I am taking things slow.It feels nice to have him around...

  Michael this world is filled with beautiful women.I'm sure you

  will find a woman thats crazy in love with you.I have to get

  ready for my friend.Take Care of yourself,things will get better

  with time.Just think,my timing wasn't perfect then,but its perfect

  now.Now I have more to offer,and hopefully oneday I can and will

  share my love with the right man.Until then I am going to enjoy

  all the attention both men are giving.....

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  Posted by Jane Wed Oct 7, 2009 10:10pm PDT

  nice......michael.

  do you know that you are not the one whos hurting.

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