Why do females sexually chase married males ? Paula, Jillian, Maureen, Mary any answer's?

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  Posted by Michael Sun Nov 8, 2009 8:12am PST

  i DONT KNOW YES IT HURTS BUT WHY DO MALE DO THE SAME AND HURT THE OTHER MALES FEELINGS I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW THAT?

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  Posted by Shirley Sun Nov 8, 2009 8:34am PST

  some women do it without realizing it hurts the children but if a women sees a married man they think of stablity and exseptence. and if this man can do that for his wife he can do it for them. and u see satin is out to destroy,and with a marriage thats one of Gods most sacred things. eaven if a man is just dating someone, there will always be a nuther women thinking the grass is greener on the otherside. because of her low self astem. Now then u also have the fact that people today nolonger listen to ther morels or that little voice telling them to do the right thing.but no matter what a women wants to be love, and wuwed again and try to run from the pain thay felt befor,not realilizing there just setting them selfs up again. now as for the kids Now some women dont think of them they use them. and thats cause deep down there not ready to be moms. cause how can they be ready if they dont have the husband God planed for them to have. ........well thats all i got for now otherwise ill just keep going lol. but i do hope this helps and maby gives some of those women something to think about.

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  Posted by swim lady Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:16am PST

  why do the men do it? give us all the lies. not telling us they are married the first mistake, we end up in loe with them before the truth is known. after 2 years of lying to me i was already in love with me. there were no signs of him being married. what do we do then

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  Posted by Gina Mon Nov 9, 2009 7:31pm PST

  I think that some women do it as a challange, and some get attached. It all depends on your out look and what you need from a man. If women are ok with being the other women it works out well, they both get what they want. If you want a relationship with a married man just know, THEY NEVER LEAVE THERE WIFE FOR YOU!!!!! NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY!!!!

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  Posted by Francis M.B Tue Nov 10, 2009 5:39pm PST

  When I see all the typos, I would never leave my wife for any of you.

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  Posted by M Tue Nov 10, 2009 6:34pm PST

  Because your husband is sexually chasing me. This has nothing to do about your children. It has everything to do about you. Stop using your kids as an excuse and WAKE UP! It's you Marilyn. No one else but you. Why don't you lose weight? Why don't you learn how to wear appropriate professional clothing? Why don't you stop being so arrogant, elitist and entitled? You have done NOTHING to earn those attitudes. Do you think that your husband's status applies to you too? It doesn't. Why don't you stop being a financial cesspool on your husband and start earning your own money? Instead of blaming Paula, Jillian, Maureen or Mary, why don't you look at Marilyn .... and see what Marilyn has done (or not done) to create the situation you speak of. Your husband is lonely and wants sympathy. He apparently is not getting that from you. He wants to know he is desirable and young. He clearly is not getting that from you either. By the way, I'm not the first .... and I am confident I will not be the last. I may not be a saint within my heart but I am proud to say I didn't do anything that crossed any line with your spouse. But if you are not careful, one of these days one of the women he chases will eventually cross that line. So instead of venting your anger and frustration in cyberspace, why don't you do what you should have been doing all along - pay A LOT of attention to your man so he doesn't chase me and I, in turn, do not get confused, and chase back.

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  Posted by Does it matter Wed Nov 11, 2009 1:27pm PST

  You can't only blame one party with a cheating spouse. It takes two people. I would imagine she is chasing your husband because she is a w---- and nothing but a w----. Someone who is too insecure in themselves to get their own man so they figure they will take yours away from you. There's less work involved with stealing your husband all they have to do is give him a piece of ass and thats it. However, he was not forced to chase or acknowledge that he was being chased by another woman. He strayed on his own. You need to step up and take charge of your life and let her have him. Anyone who knowingly hurts another person is not worth your time or energy. Karma is a b---- and it WILL happen to him and the other woman as well. It always does!!

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  Posted by hskrfn24 Thu Nov 12, 2009 10:41am PST

  I agree both parties need to take responsibility. We all know how people like M Tue sleep at night, by blaming someone else and taking no accountability for her actions. It takes two to tango. Before it gets to the infidelity part, the man needs to talk to his spouse to get things fixed without having to seek out someone else. After that's done, it's the wife's responsibility to work on that. The woman he wants or who he is cheating with needs focus less on herself and more on the whole picture. The attitude of completely blaming the man shows lack of character on her part.

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  Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:51am PST

  it takes two to tango...But I agree... "some" women nowadays prefer married men... maybe because of the security they provide or mainly because of the thrill of getting/robbing someone elses increases their self esteem... personally I think that 'cats will always eat fish', so if the lady is there readily available, why waste... But I strongly believes that a men WILL NEVER LEAVES HIS WIFE... It's just a FLING!!!

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  Posted by Star** Tue Nov 17, 2009 1:01am PST

  I feel all to often Men and Women who are married allow themselves to flirt with the opposite sex. Which if your married you should be guarding your thoughts as well.

  But there are also women and men out there that don't care if there is a ring on someones finger. Then they start flirting HARD CORE just to see what can come of it. Its a GAME to them. I'm sorry but Honestly men or women allowing them self to Destroy any MARRIAGE or be part of such a act is Careless and Selfish. They care of NO-ONE but themselves PERIOD. They will ONE day get the PAIN they've left in there wake right back in there FACE one day. I actually feel sorry for them. Because they cant see what they are doing. But either in the life or the next life they will HAVE TO FACE WHAT THEY DID. THEY WILL HAVE TO WATCH WHAT THEY'VE DONE AND SEE EVERYONE THEY'VE HURT. I can't imagine having to watch my life and ALL the PAIN I've caused. Almost like the movie Scrooge. I have to admit it's to bad they kind of people couldn't have a SCROOGE moment and have three spirits visit them to SHAPE them up. LOL

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