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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Your Dating Dresscode Decoded!

So you've got a date all lined up and you're feeling good. Sometimes what to wear on the date is more stressful than the date itself. Ladies, communication is key. By finding out more about where you're going and what you'll be doing you can ease your sartorial stresses in a second.

Super Casual:

If you're going to be bowling, hitting a sporting event, or doing something outdoors, you want to know that ahead of time so that you can leave the spiked ankle booties at home. Consider a pair of comfy leggings with flats and a longer plaid button down shirt (remember, leggings aren't actually pants) to incorporate one of the season's hottest trends.

Dinner and Drinks:

If you're going the traditional dinner or drinks route, I don't think you can go wrong with a pair of chic jeans, heels, and a top (try a luxe fabric like silk or satin). Throw on a blazer or leather jacket and you're good to go. Depending on how formal the restaurant or bar is, you can dress this look up or down with jewelry and accessories. It doesn't hurt to ask if a place is dressy if you aren't sure.

A Wedding or Holiday Party:

Let's face it. Guys like to see a little skin, even in the colder months. Consider a one-shoulder dress or wearing a neckline that dips a little low in the front or back. This hint of skin will definitely make an impression without showing off all of the goods. You do not want to be the girl that everyone is talking about unless they're saying how lovely you are.

Final Tip:

Of course, you should always be who you are, but a first date is not the place to make your ultimate fashion statement. You want to feel comfortable and let the focus be on you, not your peacock feather coat or Balmain shoulder pads.

Victoria Namkung is the co-founder of the popular blog My Very Worst Date, which features war zone reporting from the dating trenches.

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  • CowboyPants's Avatar
    Posted by CowboyPants Fri Nov 6, 2009 2:23pm PST

    Very practical- you definitely DONT want to be the one the whole room is talking about

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  • Chanel's Avatar
    Posted by Chanel Fri Nov 6, 2009 2:24pm PST

    I want that Ralph shirt!

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  • Simone's Avatar
    Posted by Simone Fri Nov 6, 2009 2:24pm PST

    Excellent tips. It's so important to keep in mind what type of date you're going on when picking an outfit.

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  • Haley's Avatar
    Posted by Haley Fri Nov 6, 2009 2:30pm PST

    I like this. Helpful

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  • Anne's Avatar
    Posted by Anne Fri Nov 6, 2009 2:33pm PST

    i want to be wearing that flannel right now!

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  • Janice's Avatar
    Posted by Janice Sat Nov 7, 2009 6:25am PST

    The worst is when dates are a, "surprise."

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  • Ayanna's Avatar
    Posted by Ayanna Sat Nov 7, 2009 12:00pm PST

    Cool!

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  • Kylie Ladd's Avatar
    Posted by Kylie Ladd Sun Nov 8, 2009 11:56am PST

    Where can I find the dress? So cute!

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  • Kylie Ladd's Avatar
    Posted by Kylie Ladd Sun Nov 8, 2009 11:56am PST

    Where can I find the dress? So cute!

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  • Timmie's Avatar
    Posted by Timmie Sun Nov 8, 2009 3:37pm PST

    It's about time somebody suggested clothes to cover up low cut jeans and "muffin tops".

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