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Dear Friend or Foe, I’m in my 30s and have been friends with “Erin” since we were 6. Erin is getting married next month. I think she's making a mistake. I like her fiance as a person, but he strung her along for nine years. She also frequently complains to me that their sex life is nearly nonexistent. What’s more, she confided last year that he admitted to having a one-night stand with another man. In fact, she expressed fears about his sexuality just a few months before he proposed. I happen to be a bisexual person in a committed, monogamous, hetero-marriage, so I'm not judging him based solely on one bicurious episode. But a couple that only has sex twice a year before they walk down the aisle seems destined for serious intimacy issues. Read More »
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When you come home from school, or a long day of work, did you stop and notice, even once, that you have "home" to come to??? A lot of people say, well, if I pay the bills here than this is my home but it's so much deeper than that. A home is… Read More »
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How do I let everyone know I am bisexual and I like women? How do I not lose friends or even family? And now how do I go about finding a female to share my new feelings with? Read More »
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I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now, and during the course of our relationship, I came to terms with my bisexuality. He has been very loving and accepting throughout this process, and our relationship is the healthiest one I've ever been in. I love him, and I don't have any complaints sexually--except that now that I am no longer denying the attractions I feel toward women. I would be lying if I said I didn't feel frustrated by not being able to experience that part of my sexuality. I don't know how to deal with this frustration without damaging this relationship or having to devise some sort of awkward, complicated arrangement. Read More »
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Emotional cripples. Religious zealots. Man-babies. My recent dating roster could serve as a police lineup of degenerates, liars, and serious let downs. Naturally, I’m hypersensitive to red flags these days. So when a guy I’m interested in tells me—post hook-up—that he’s a “nasty little bisexual,” shouldn’t I run? Perhaps. But once I got the initial panic out of the way (okay, I called my friend and frantically yelled: “911! 911!”), I let his confession marinate. Then I decided I’m not going anywhere. Or, if I do, it’ll have nothing to do with his half-gayness. Read More »
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